{"id":42347,"date":"2025-02-12T05:20:00","date_gmt":"2025-02-12T05:20:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rightupmyaliway.com\/?p=42347"},"modified":"2025-02-12T00:14:26","modified_gmt":"2025-02-12T00:14:26","slug":"lets-look-at-how-we-work-on-our-marriage-2-12-2025","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rightupmyaliway.com\/index.php\/2025\/02\/12\/lets-look-at-how-we-work-on-our-marriage-2-12-2025\/","title":{"rendered":"**Let&#8217;s Look At&#8230;.How We Work on our Marriage** {2.12.2025}"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"42347\" class=\"elementor elementor-42347\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-64adb563 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"64adb563\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-2e064b9f\" data-id=\"2e064b9f\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-798d07a8 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"798d07a8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Happy Happy Wednesday friends!!\u00a0<\/p><p>On the second Wednesday of every month, I link up with Shay from<span style=\"color: #33cccc;\">\u00a0<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/mixandmatchmama.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong><span style=\"color: #33cccc;\">MixandMatchMama<\/span><\/strong><\/a>\u00a0and Erika from\u00a0<span style=\"color: #33cccc;\"><a style=\"color: #33cccc;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.alittlebitofeverythingblog.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>ALittleBitofEverything<\/strong><\/a><\/span>. Today, we are talking about how we work on our marriage.\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-653ecb1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"653ecb1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"925\" height=\"501\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Lets-Look-2025.jpg?fit=925%2C501&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-41745\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Lets-Look-2025.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Lets-Look-2025.jpg?resize=300%2C163&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Lets-Look-2025.jpg?resize=1024%2C555&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Lets-Look-2025.jpg?resize=768%2C416&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Lets-Look-2025.jpg?resize=1140%2C618&amp;ssl=1 1140w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 925px) 100vw, 925px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7b6d4819 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"7b6d4819\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>I am by no means an expert on marriage. We have been married for 12 years and together for over 13, and I will say that we definitely have to work on it. There are some great days and some not so great days. And that&#8217;s okay. We have to be forgiving and give grace.\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2d87f3a3 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"2d87f3a3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Jan-26-12-scaled.jpg?fit=768%2C1024&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-42037\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Jan-26-12-scaled.jpg?w=1920&amp;ssl=1 1920w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Jan-26-12-scaled.jpg?resize=225%2C300&amp;ssl=1 225w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Jan-26-12-scaled.jpg?resize=768%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Jan-26-12-scaled.jpg?resize=1152%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 1152w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Jan-26-12-scaled.jpg?resize=1536%2C2048&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Jan-26-12-scaled.jpg?resize=1140%2C1520&amp;ssl=1 1140w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Jan-26-12-scaled.jpg?w=1850&amp;ssl=1 1850w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-75fb0d87 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"75fb0d87\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Pretty early in our marriage, we read <a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/3tzTenC\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong><span style=\"color: #33cccc;\">5 Love Languages<\/span><\/strong><\/a>. This was a popular book during this time, and I wanted to be a dutiful wife and learn whatever I could to be the best I could be. We both read it and learned a lot about each other. We took the quizzes again about 5 years ago, and it&#8217;s amazing how they had changed some.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-40ae5468 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"40ae5468\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"209\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/5-love-languages.jpg?fit=209%2C300&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium wp-image-42349\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/5-love-languages.jpg?w=424&amp;ssl=1 424w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/5-love-languages.jpg?resize=209%2C300&amp;ssl=1 209w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 209px) 100vw, 209px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-94e5fbd elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"94e5fbd\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>This book right here\u00a0<strong><span style=\"color: #33cccc;\"><a style=\"color: #33cccc;\" href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/3Gn4A4c\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Total Money Makeover<\/a><\/span>\u00a0<\/strong>was key to our marriage in the early years. We struggled in the beginning agreeing about money and budgeting. I definitely had more loose purse strings, and he was more of a tight wad. I can recall one time when I actually threw a napkin at him. I told him he better be thankful it wasn&#8217;t anything heavier. Bahaha! So, if you&#8217;re struggling to save money or just need some helpful tips, I would definitely recommend reading and following this.\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-043f655 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"043f655\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"236\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Dave-Ramsey.jpg?fit=236%2C300&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium wp-image-15674\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Dave-Ramsey.jpg?w=345&amp;ssl=1 345w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Dave-Ramsey.jpg?resize=236%2C300&amp;ssl=1 236w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 236px) 100vw, 236px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3a518a1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3a518a1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>It&#8217;s good to still date your spouse. We even enjoy a date with our daughter. We love going on adventures together and even just going on an afternoon car ride together.\u00a0<\/p><p>It&#8217;s good to be silly and laugh. He definitely makes me laugh. Just make time for each other.\u00a0<\/p><p>We try to watch TV or a movie on TV together, but this topic is often hard for us to agree on. Haha! I mean I tend to lean toward Rom-Com\/Romance, and he&#8217;s more of Thriller\/Action. We can usually agree on Dateline\/2020.\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-22399e95 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"22399e95\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-19cbc142\" data-id=\"19cbc142\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-157d68b6 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"157d68b6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Feb-9-11-scaled.jpg?fit=768%2C1024&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-42330\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Feb-9-11-scaled.jpg?w=1920&amp;ssl=1 1920w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Feb-9-11-scaled.jpg?resize=225%2C300&amp;ssl=1 225w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Feb-9-11-scaled.jpg?resize=768%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Feb-9-11-scaled.jpg?resize=1152%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 1152w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Feb-9-11-scaled.jpg?resize=1536%2C2048&amp;ssl=1 1536w, 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width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Feb-9-12-scaled.jpg?fit=768%2C1024&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-42331\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Feb-9-12-scaled.jpg?w=1920&amp;ssl=1 1920w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Feb-9-12-scaled.jpg?resize=225%2C300&amp;ssl=1 225w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Feb-9-12-scaled.jpg?resize=768%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Feb-9-12-scaled.jpg?resize=1152%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 1152w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Feb-9-12-scaled.jpg?resize=1536%2C2048&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Feb-9-12-scaled.jpg?resize=1140%2C1520&amp;ssl=1 1140w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Feb-9-12-scaled.jpg?w=1850&amp;ssl=1 1850w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6608341d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6608341d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>We also feel like it helps us if we each pray for each other, and we also enjoy going to church together.\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7dd84cd4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"7dd84cd4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"925\" height=\"474\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Dec-25-5-1-scaled.jpg?fit=925%2C474&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-41606\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Dec-25-5-1-scaled.jpg?w=2560&amp;ssl=1 2560w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Dec-25-5-1-scaled.jpg?resize=300%2C154&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Dec-25-5-1-scaled.jpg?resize=1024%2C525&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Dec-25-5-1-scaled.jpg?resize=768%2C394&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Dec-25-5-1-scaled.jpg?resize=1536%2C787&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Dec-25-5-1-scaled.jpg?resize=2048%2C1050&amp;ssl=1 2048w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Dec-25-5-1-scaled.jpg?resize=1140%2C584&amp;ssl=1 1140w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rightupmyaliway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Dec-25-5-1-scaled.jpg?w=1850&amp;ssl=1 1850w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 925px) 100vw, 925px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-33f0e50 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"33f0e50\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>I asked Joey to give me some insight, and he replies, &#8220;Just eventually give in and give them whatever each other wants&#8221;. Hahaha!! I do know that it does take communicating and being willing to give in sometimes. But not all the time. It&#8217;s definitely give and take.\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7bbb8cb8 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"7bbb8cb8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>I can&#8217;t think of anything else and am eager to read your thoughts.\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-28e58004 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"28e58004\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-010854b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"010854b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\"><div class=\"elementor-widget-container\"><p><span style=\"color: var( --e-global-color-text ); 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